What does section 15.4(c) of the Paypal Credit agreement say?
I'm sure it will be very fruitful to make such a demand.
https://www.paypal.com/uk/webapps/mpp/ua/legalhub-full?local...
My PayPal account is American, so I didn't try to login and read it.
EDIT: Yep, redirects me the the US credit card agreement when I login.
To say that it's a breach of agreement is inaccurate. You agree to repay those on death, so it would only be a breach of agreement if your estate attempts to avoid payment. For that reason, the letter definitely was insensitive as there's no reason to call her out for not fulfilling her agreement, unless maybe her estate is valueless and they are unable to collect?