It's funny to see these things come around and go around.
~1998, there were quite a few megabytes burnt on discussing Postgres vs. MySql. At the time, MySQL was not ACID compliant, and was (rightly) derided as a database shaped object, but not an actual database. It was faster, provided you didn't need get back the same data you put into it.
MongoDB seems to be in a similar situation. Under the right conditions, it can be ACID compliant. But it's a database shaped object. As a developer, you have to actively manage aspects of your data that should be handled by the database itself.
Every MongoDB project I've touched has run into a schema version issue. Sure, you can put freeform data into Mongo. But when you're querying your database, will a record made yesterday have the same shape as one made six months ago? How do you ensure that? You write model level code to normalize your data at run time, or you write migrations.
Anyhow, to the matter at hand:
With a well behaved ORM you can store certain properties in dedicated columns, and shove everything else into a jsonb blob. This gets the best of both worlds: indexed, relational entities, and effectively schemaless data.
As your needs evolve, you can migrate properties out of the jsonb column and up to the table schema. This can be entirely transparent to your repo/service/controller level code. Now you can apply SQL level constraints to required fields.
This has worked for me on a few different projects.
1) I've never regretted going with Postgres over MongoDB.
2) I can't think of a real application where I'd prefer Mongo. And the cases that get close, I'd probably jump to a stream processing system like Kafka and avoid database semantics entirely.
A fully schemaless database is great, providing that all of your database applications are schemaless, too. Otherwise, you now have to manage that by hand.
I don't begrudge Mongo's existence. It's a worthwhile experiment to move features in and out of the database semantic model. We go through cycles of decomposing and recomposing functionality. This is how we recombine tools to become other tools. But I do not see Mongo as the future of databases.