Having lived there and now living in a cheaper real estate market I am grateful for having lived there, where I could not afford a house. I am now no longer interested in owning residential real estate no matter where I go!
Good general rule of thumb is your cost of housing shouldn't exceed 30% of your income.
The 40x rule in New York (annual income must be at least 40x monthly rent) conveniently works out to be 30% too.
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