I feel compelled to note that this page is from 2003-05-13, so I have no clue how much of its gripes are still valid in 'modern' C++ :)
That said, I think the complaint maybe comes down to coding style and architecture of the thing they're coding. They seem to make a joke we'd maybe more closely associate with Java than C++ these days. Also Microsoft's C++ style is awful. So if that's the only experience you have with C++ I would be hard-pressed to blame you for hating it.
> And, as I said before, every C++ programmer feels bound by some mystic promise to use every damn element of the language on every project.
https://www.boost.org/doc/libs/1_61_0/libs/smart_ptr/smart_p...
The macos kernel driver interface, IOKit, is C++ too.