I purchased them a Netgear R7800 and installed hnyman's LEDE build [1] to enable SQM. Night and day difference in latency response. No more staring at a white screen for 3 seconds per URL click.
The build has been stable for several months. I wouldn't recommend this for non-technical users or anyone not willing to spend time troubleshooting, but it has been a great improvement. I couldn't find any other device capable of doing this without running x86 hardware or something else silly.
A few other people mention it, but yes, this is only going to work on slower connections on current SOHO hardware. I think the R7800 can do software SQM at up to 150mbps or so. Plus, if you have a gigabit symmetric connection, hopefully you aren't having bufferbloat issues.
Just wish a popular manufacturer would release an easy-to-use router with SQM so I could install it for non-technical users and forget. Ubiquiti is somewhat close to that, but I believe their prosumer hardware (USG) is running a slow processor at the moment and doesn't even support SQM without installing custom kernels.
[1] https://forum.lede-project.org/t/build-for-netgear-r7800/316