75% of women survived the Titanic, compared with 19% of men. (http://www.icyousee.org/titanic.html)
At the massacre of Katyn, an estimated ~22,000 men and exactly 1 woman were executed by the Soviets.
The West has undeniably patriarchal elements of its history. But trying to spin this into a narrative of pervasive misogyny ignores the very real value that society places on the well-being of women. Even in your own example, the men angrily avenge the treatment of the women by outsiders.