Here are some links that may help solve your problems.
Comparing spreadsheets is standard since Excel 2013.
https://support.office.com/en-us/article/compare-two-version...
Power Query may be of use to automate ETL type processes, which is standard since Excel 2016 and is a free add-on prior:
https://support.office.com/en-us/article/introduction-to-mic...