> All the species in which older, bigger fish are found in deeper water have something else in common: we eat them
Hemm, not. Poisonous fishes show the same pattern. There are poisonous fishes also in the deep sea. If we do not eat then, why do not live in the surface?
Mola mola is the biggest extant bony fish. Is neither fished nor eaten normally. Adults still pass most of its time at deep waters.
To extrapolate the behaviour of 30.000 species of animals after one single species and one single variable leads often to wrong conclusions. Fishes are complex creatures.