I have looked at Dragonfly with interest, due to how they manage VM. I really like how they shard the page queues to be per-cpu. With that said, a lot of work has been done by jeffr in the last 6 months to a year to improve NUMA performance (which we partially sponsored) which has dramatically improved VM scalability even on single socket boxes, and which has allowed us to remove a lot of our local hacks.
I considered giving Dragonfly a try in the past, but just never had the time. There would be a depressing amount of work before we could even consider Dragonfly, mostly centered around our async sendfile (which is now upstream in FreeBSD), our TCP changes: BBR (not yet upstream), RACK (now upstream) and TCP pacing (now upstream). Not to mention unmapped mbufs (not yet upstream) and kernel TLS (also not yet upstream). Also, the last time I looked, Dragonfly did not have drivers for Chelsio or Mellanox 10/25/40/100GbE NICs. Without even just one of these things, performance will be so bad that any comparison testing would be meaningless.