You get a 1-dimensional perspective every time something local goes wrong and is masqueraded as international news. Its like if a civil rights violation from one US city on any given day was elevated to the world stage. It would sound like much more of a nightmare than anything going on in the UAE.
Most females I've talked to absolutely love Dubai and Abu Dhabi. Even people that have moved there.
The best analogy to the experience is Disney World. Lots of thrills, and adult sexual behavior is stifled, except for minor infractions instead of simply thrown out of the park you'll be thrown in a horrible prison.
The fact of the matter is that you're not one of the slaves. That side of things won't be your experience.
You hope you don't get sexually assaulted and judicially victim blamed, and thats the same anywhere.