What's troubling about FB is the _other_ implicit information they (and the other large social apps) passively collect about you. Unless you're using a particularly effective ad/privacy blocker you're also sharing all the data about every site you've visited that has a FB like button. Also, separate from you and your data, FB has a tremendous graph of all the contacts, etc who have you as a contact.
Collectively, this gives them a much greater reach and ability to make inferences than just what you directly share.
The quoted conversation is about Zuck volunteering to share information to someone who is NOT their friends.
SSN is not private, personal info?
I've never met anyone online or offline who wanted to publicize their SSN widely. Oh wait... that LifeLock dude.... https://www.wired.com/2010/05/lifelock-identity-theft/
SNS almost certainly refers to either:
1) Student numbers
2) Screen names (like for AIM)