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I think the resolution of all this will again redefine "distance" to take resolutions involving quantum entanglement into account. Vaguely I picture some quantum relativity theory where from the perspective of an entangled particle it's still d=0 from its entangled partner and everything else is splitting apart.The problem with this idea is that entanglement is everywhere.
The electrons inside a molecule can't be described individually, you must use the superposition of anisometric combinations of them, because only one combination is not enough. It's usually not called entanglement, but mathematically is the same phenomena.
Every time two particles collide they get entangled. If they somehow collide or they split and the new particles collide you can see the entanglement as interference. If they go far away, it's difficult to measure the correlation, but it still there. Again, it's usually not called entanglement, but mathematically is the same phenomena.
You have probably only read about cases where it's easy to characterize and isolate the superposition state of two particles that are far away. It's an interesting case because you can make some measurements and see that the classic description is wrong and prove that you must use the quantum description of the particles.
But if you make any two particles, they will be entangled, just in a non easy to guess form, so they are not nice for experiments. Or if some of them collide with a third particle now you must consider the join state of the tree particles that is more difficult (there are some nice theoretical entanglement results with three particles, but I think nobody had measure them yet).
If you see only two of the three entangled particles now the lack of some part of the information makes the result less clear, because you always must repeat the experiment many times and now you must take a weighted average of the possible states of the third particle you are not seeing. So if you are lucky you will see a smaller quantum effect, but if the state of the third particle is important enough you will see an average that is essentially equal to the classic result.
And if they collide with more particles they all get in a superposition state that is equivalent of an entangled state, but it's very difficult od impossible to control it in an experiment. So when you see some part of them they look like a usual classical system.
So after a few collisions all the particles are somewhat entangled, it's uncontrollable but mathematically there is no sharp criteria to distinguish the controllable states that are nice for entanglement experiments and the uncontrollable states where the decoherence make they look as classic system and everything in between. So if you say that two entangled particles have a distance d=0 then all the particles in the universe have d=0.