The living cost thing is BS. You are confusing between "living cost" and "cost for a good standard of living which everyone in US takes for granted". The former is less, just because more people are very poor, eat once a day and live like hell. I can bet cost for a comparable standard of living to US would be super high.
Just because your developer is OK with living poorly doesn't mean he has to. You can be fair and guide him to a better life.