As a former systems person, I thought of all the ways I could divine that an account was related. IP address of course came to mind, but I dismissed it, because so many networks use NAT, etc. (Especially at high schools, there must be so many accounts with the same IP. But I get that the student goes home at night...)
So you're basically saying this SRE made an educated guess. It does make me feel better about that part :D
Much of my professional life is evangelizing Google Apps. I know and advocate the party line about security. And I have experienced the customer support staff who have access when helping me troubleshoot. (I'm glad they have access.)
I guess I just assumed/heard that SRE's weren't involved in troubleshooting user stuff, as they were in deep disk i/o, networking, performance stuff. (Translation: was hoping they couldn't access user stuff.)
As for internal auditing, it would be cool if there was an alert any time user data was accessed that didn't have a corresponding trouble ticket.
Thanks again for jumping in the thread.