The point of the above (possibly out of date) story is that when I say "update", I want a minimal chance that something serious changed. I don't mind fiddling around with Linux, but I want it to be on my terms (like a lazy Sunday). Giving the user a choice between "update" and "upgrade" allows me to specify when I want to apply major changes.
this isn't really a distro/linux issue.
Rolling releases only have the later concept, meaning that instead of the user acknowledging and preparing for a change, users need to respond to it.
There's nothing wrong with snapshot releases in a distro focused on usability and stability.
I upgrade all packages about once a week.
I have 4 computers and 2 phones. No time for that.
My mother update her distro twice a year, when I come over and think about it.
But let's be real, people installing arch don't have "one computer". Not the ones around me anyway.
Yes, sometimes it would be nice to have another machine or a monitor around. Or a desk that's not a dining table, even. Oh well! Anyway, Arch works just great for this kind of use case.
Yeah, you lost me there. Too much customization for me. Which is why I use Ubuntu.
You see the point is not that Arch or Ubuntu is better, but that it really targets very different user bases.
For my own use (or for power users and other tech-savvy folks who I'm reasonably sure will be able to maintain their systems themselves), a rolling release is less worrying.
The bigger problem with the rolling release model was that package maintainers would leave packages sit for long periods of time, and then they'd write long, arrogant posts in the forum telling users that it's no big deal to compile your software. That can't happen with a regular release schedule.
[0] - https://www.chakralinux.org [1] - https://wiki.chakralinux.org/index.php?title=Half-Rolling_Re...
If you want easier-to-install-Arch and a bit more cautious/safer rolling release cycles, take a look at Manjaro.
The i3 edition of Manjaro is heavily customised and almost an entirely different beast (i3-gaps etc).
This is the piece that swung me: https://adereth.github.io/blog/2013/10/02/why-you-should-try...
It mentions notion so I tried that for about 2 days before taking up a comment's suggestion to try i3.
Edit: I don't think there's an official guide for actually installing i3, but the official fedora blog has a good one. Searching for "install i3wm ubuntu" (or arch) would likely also show some good default setups.
The only thing that's more difficult about the Arch install is that you have to be able to follow written instructions...
OpenBSD's manpages are also remarkably comprehensive, and they're available without an Internet connection. Pretty fantastic if you're using OpenBSD for your gateway and fucked up your PF configuration :)