All this talk about retiring early when living frugally is a bunch of horseshit. It's 'Fuck you money' or bust.
- Completely counterproductive to live frugally in order to retire early so that you can continue living frugally without working for 'the man'
- if you really want independence from your employer, it needs to be complete independence. Not the independence that risks bankrupting you whenever you or your family have a serious health condition
- 'Mr. Money Mustache' is so full of crap sometimes, I wonder if I'm reading /r/frugal_jerk and people often forget that 'Mr. Money Mustache' is a business in itself with different incentives than solely teaching you how to 'game the system' and 'escape the ratrace'
- sometimes the frugal part takes up so much time and energy it's counterproductive to go that way when you're really well paid. Not to mention the decrease in quality of life
After decades in this business, if you want a happy semi-independent life the following advice is what I can think of:
- work on yourself, cultivate your craft, become a specialist so that you call the shots whenever you need to change jobs and afford to pick jobs allowing you to work on what you really want
- work on side-projects and constantly learn new stuff. If you manage to get a passive income stream, good for you but don't necessarily make it a life goal
- screw corporate loyalty. Change jobs every 3-4 years, you'll learn way more and your income will be miles ahead of your former colleagues
- don't buy stupid shit you can't afford (including but not limited to: fancy cars, McMansions, travel for the sake of traveling, etc..) unless they are a central part of your existence
- follow some basic money management rules (max out retirement funds, keep emergency cash while investing your savings, etc..)
- keep good work life balance constantly so that you don't get burned out or daydream about your early retirement