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We use GitLab on prem at work because we want the features. For private stuff or super small teams I'd chose Gitea as well. And/or GitLab.com.

GitLab's performance is a major pain point for us. We throw an absurd amount of hardware at it for mid sized teams.

same here, gitea works for probably 90% of the users IMO, I use it to host everything these days. tried gitlab a couple of times in the past, not impressed by the performance yet.

have not used drone yet, will give it a shot.

Bitbucket. It's cheap.