You give a man a fish, he eats for a day. He eats for a day Don't imagine that doesn't matter. Its easy to give up because its not permanent. Nothing is permanent, but helping is helping, no matter what the cynics say.
I’ve seen the same in the people I’ve given to. No one just wants to take the money and do nothing and become dependent. Everyone, literally everyone to a one, wants to start a business.
The discussion isn’t helping or not helping, but determine how to best help and allocate your resources accordingly.
And, what happens when they eat for a day and then you disappear is, they ate for a day.