My Life on Facebook as a Woman and Why Social Network Advertising Doesn't Work
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I guess you do have an interesting point about giving the users more control over the ads they see. This seems to be a semi-hot startup area right now, in case you haven't seen this.
Is anyone from different age groups seeing any different ads?
Unfortunately, there is no way to write a facebook app to capture the displayed ads - but I think it would be possible with a firefox plug in...
You can to target region, gender, age, and a few other things(keywords, status, etc).
How many good advertising/marketing team members are technical & can code? That is a big hiring hurdle that Fb puts in front of new hires.
If you find a website useful, I think it is much better to act in good faith and put up with the ads. If the ads bother you, then try to find an alternative website for that purpose, or contact the authors and present your dilemma. Perhaps they will offer a subscription service sans advertisements, or tone the existing ads down a notch.