The gain in dBi is 10 * log10(linear gain), so the linear gain is 10^((gain in dBi) / 10). So 5 dBi is a gain of 3.16, and 6 dBi is 3.98. Log rules mean you can just subtract, so the difference is 1 dBi, meaning a 6 dBi antenna is 1.25 times more powerful than 5 dBi.

I'm not sure what alternative units you could use, because log units are more natural. Joe consumer can understand "6 dBi is 1dBi better than 5 dBi," he doesn't need to know the details any more than he needs to know exactly how much faster his car will go with 10 extra horsepower. It's the relative comparison that matters (more horsepower == more speed) and using dBi makes those relative comparisons simpler.

The downside to using dBi is that being a number related to a theoretical antenna it is higher and welcomed by advertisers: if you take out your router external antenna having a gain of say 2dBi to swap with a higher one that gains 9dBi, you don't get a gain of 9dB, but vendors still can write 9dBi on its box.

For home devices, usually smaller dipoles or longer collinears are used because they are the best choice in a scenario where the user needs to cover his/her house and not the neighbors (just keep the antennas pointed up or down, not sideways). There are many other kinds such as slotted, grid, helical, sector, patch, Yagi, etc. each one with its best use case. Building them is also fun and cheap.