throwaway account:
When I left my job a few months ago, my total income from my employer to that point this year was over 400k. It includes payouts from my last startup I sold, but this would have continued for the next year or so had i stayed.
Since this is a financial article, I'll focus on financial stuff.
Its anecdotal but I think the average financial return for doing a startup is slightly better overall, and probably decently better if you are highly intelligent and skilled overall.
If you are not highly intelligent and skilled overall its possible working at a company is a better deal.
Two questions to consider:
Q1: Long term--what will open up more avenues of opportunity for me?
In general I was not a very good corporate climber. Some ppl are. Some ppl aren't. I am not. I dress casually, speak colloquially and comparatively don't care too much about what other ppl think and don't like 9-5.
Given I already have startup success, it was easy for me to decide startups are financially more lucrative for me.
Why didn't I stay and wait for all my earnings to pay out?
1. I got most of it already
2. I'm not getting any younger
3. I found a great team that I wanted to start a company with.
4. The remaining cash would not change my life significantly.
Given all of that, I decided I'd rather leave.
Q2: Having been in your position when I was a bit younger and first starting out (relatively high paying job...didn't love it but i wasn't going to shoot myself), I'd ask myself the "bezos/jobs question" : When you are 80 and on your deathbed, your life flashing before you in your last days, will you look back and regret the decision you took to jump ship and do a startup?
Imagine all sorts of realistic worst case scenarios....completely flops, you go bankrupt, waste 3 years of your life, gf leaves, mess up your health for a while...whatever is really bad but realistic.
Does the 80 yr old regret the decision of doing the startup? If so, then thats fine. Don't do it. I think I would have balked if I had a mortgage, kids and no savings.
However, in general people regret things they haven't done more than things that they did.