The "nub" (slightly edited):
"A language design can no longer be thing. It must be a pattern, a pattern for growth".
"My point is that a good programmer does not just write programs. A good programmer builds a working vocabulary. A good programmer does language design, though not from scratch, but building on the frame of a base language"
Oh, the paper if you don't want to watch the whole thing:
https://www.cs.virginia.edu/~evans/cs655/readings/steele.pdf