Select loyaltyMemberID
from table
WHERE gender = x
AND (age = y OR censor = z)
Why the random complexity with individual unions and a group? Of course that's going to be dog slow.Sure, the filters can be arbitrary but with an ORM it's really really simple to build them up from your app code. The Django ORM with Q objects is particularly great at this.
Obviously I'm armchairing hard here but it smells like over engineering from this post alone. Stuff like this is bread and butter SQL.
Edit: I've just read the query in the post again and I really can't understand why you would write it like that. Am I missing something here?
Seems like a fundamental misunderstanding of SQL rather than a particularly hard problem to solve.