I'd always understood gravity to be a mutual attraction between two masses. So the thing I have difficulty understanding is how light can only be attracted to mass, but itself cannot attract mass, no matter the quantity present.
This effect causis gravitational lensing: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gravitational_lens
More info here. All of it contradictory :) http://www.physicsforums.com/showthread.php?t=287888
So I'm still wondering if it is proper to think of a star's gravitational field being caused not just by its matter, but also by all the photons it has pumped out over its lifetime.
Only things with mass can attract other objects with the gravitational force. Photons aren't in that category.