>Inflation has been 3% a year for decades and wages have stayed flat.
Every time I read this claim and go looking for data, I find data that says that real wages are roughly flat, which means that they have kept pace with inflation. (That's the definition of real wages: that they are in inflation-adjusted terms.) It seems a common journalistic (and often political) talking point to say exactly what you said, which makes the math or reading comprehension challenged assume something quite different. While the author or speaker is not technically lying, they are merely misleading the reader/listener with a confusing (and sometimes confused) combination of nominal inflation and real wages.
See figures 3 and 4 here:
https://www.epi.org/publication/charting-wage-stagnation/
> Property value have skyrocketed, vehicle prices have skyrocketed
This next chart is in nominal dollars (meaning, not inflation adjusted):
http://ritholtz.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/02/pricechanges....
It shows that vehicles have not gotten more expensive (even as they've gotten much, much better, safer, more reliable, etc) and that housing and food/beverages have inflated by less than wages and by roughly the same amount as general inflation (which is no great surprise, given that they are a substantial component of the inflation calculation and that it would be difficult to sustain inflation over a long period of time in a consumer-driven economy in the absence of [nominal] wage growth for consumers).
College and healthcare have indeed risen much more quickly than wages or general inflation.
Do you have contrary sources?