Eastern european living in San Francisco now. It's the lifestyle. Back home I would go out once per week, drink 2 beers max, walk-to-and-from (4-5 euro total cost of a whole week's entertainment. Bang for your buck!). If you wanted to drink more you 'd pre-game at home, drinking unlabeled homebrewed vodka! Food? You cook it yourself (or mom would since I lived with my parents), put it in the refrigerator and warm it up every day at the week.
Now in SF, I order sushi twice per week. Go out at least 3-4 times per week and lots of times pay for drinks for friends etc, never walk when going out always rideshare. And it's not only about alcohol and food of course.
I could be saving way way more if not for this lifestyle. That's how it goes. Everyone who tells you otherwise are lying to you and worse themselves. Basic human nature. The moment you make more money, you want to take your girlfriend/boyfriend to a fancier restaurant. You want to buy the nicer phone. Except for rent prices which are insanely high, the regular cost of living is not that much higher than living in eastern europe. Actually funny enough when I first moved here, I was shocked at how cheap everything seemed - of course taking into consideration the high salaries. In many cases actually eastern europeans pay more for certain things because for some unknown reason 1 dollar turns to 1 euro, instead of 0.75 of a euro or whatever the price at the moment is. Our petty $350 salaries can sure take it!
Mate, people here have a favorite whisky!I now have a favorite whisky. And as any self-respecting adult it needs to be fancy, not the cheap stuff. Ardbeg, tastes smoky, like swalloing in dim campfire and most bars here will charge you $16 for a glass. There you have it, how people aren't saving money.
It adds up. But I also have a friend here who on a 120k engineer salary and saved 100k in 2 years. Only eating at work, living on a shared room with 3 more people in treasure island. Reimbursing bus fares to work etc. The other side of the coin. Almost everyday I say to myself that soon I will do the same, and sure enough every day I don't. Just like not going to the gym and forgetting to call mom again.