Sam boyer had a take on this which is worth reading considering he is the current developer of dep: https://sdboyer.io/blog/vgo-and-dep/
I'm sure it's disheartening for people who worked on dep. I've had a great experience with it too, especially after the .4.1 release.
While not everyone agrees, one of my favorite things about Go is that every decision is well thought out in terms of its effects on the entire ecosystem. Just because some other language or toolset does something isn't a good enough reason to force it into Go. I trust the overlords, they've been good to me so far. :)