The Best Alternative for Every Facebook Feature
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I actually do know people who strongly prefer their friends not to have a Facebook account. So this is a feature and not a bug, since it is a strong opportunity to sort out to whom of the Facebook "friends" one really wants to stay in contact with.
Or to give another argument why this is a feature and not a bug: About everybody who has used Facebook for a long time also has collected "friends" that one would love to drop from the friends list, but has not done for politeness. This is finally an opportunity to get rid of them in a much more socially accepted way.
My impression is that this strongly depends on the social circle the respective person is.
You first have to keep in mind that in Germany many people indeed use Facebook, but it is not not that deeply integrated into the life as it is my impression that it is the case in the US. Also in Germany it is often the case (at least in my impression) that people that come to some gathering explicitly say that don't desire that anybody puts some photors that were made of them on Facebebook.
In this case: if I were living in the USA, I probably were in a tiny minority. I am also probably a minority in Germany, too, but it is not my impression that this minority is tiny.
Can confirm, coming from festivals I'm not allowed to upload some pictures to FB and have to send them via email to a bunch of different people who'd still like them.
To have a good chance at becoming a viable replacement, all of this functionality would have to be replicated in a single service. Taking on a multi-billion dollar company's cash cow product head-on is quite a difficult task.
I can do just fine without "news" from newsfeed. Their alternatives don't let me see pictures of, for example, my sister and brother's families. Random thoughts of people And so on. I'm sure my family would occasionally send me pictures, but it is hard to inconvenience everyone else. Not only that, but it would be more inconvenient for me. The main reason I joined facebook was because it was a simple way to keep in touch when moving overseas, after all. I can give updates and pictures without sending to so many people.
Groups are a weird thing. I find things like Reddit to be a different sort of feel.
Lastly: I think for a lot of people, alternatives need to be able to communicate with facebook and have be compatible in some ways. Right now, facebook is more akin to a phone company that only lets folks speak with others in the same network. If they would allow "friends" outside the network, allow public posts to be viewed by anyone, messenger coordinates with other messenger services, there would be more chance for folks to actually switch. In addition, more folks would switch to other services if there were an easy way for people to port some things to a new service: Profile information, pictures, and so on.
Marketplace misses the point as well. I occasionally sell artwork, for example. I don't advertise or self promote much, but do keep up an art page. The sales I get are generally from facebook. There are a few social networks dedicated to artwork, but it definitely isn't the same.
Someone else commented that facebook is great for finding events - I, too, use this.
Sometimes the biggest problem with replacing messenger is that others still use messenger. My experience from pre-facebook times is that no, most people don't change for you. They simply talk to you less. Not having messenger on my phone (desktop only) causes some issues here and there as it is.
I wonder if there is already legislation for this situation.
Instead of Paperless post, how about Framadate? No love for Nextcloud? Diaspora? Mastodon?
With that said, is it perhaps possible that they're writing for a more general audience that isn't particularly interested in the overhead that comes with administration and decentralized platforms? People want one, simple, clear, drop-in replacement for a given use. They want it to be one that's as easy to use as possible and trivially easy to get their friends to use.
Most of all, people want to use something their friends are already using. Isolated, un-federated systems that require some level of technical skill (i.e., my late-90s grandma can't figure out in two minutes) to use are a hard sell.
* Nextcloud - https://nextcloud.com/providers/
* Diaspora - https://bitnami.com/stack/diaspora (not that you need to host, see https://diasporafoundation.org/#get_started)
* Mastodon - https://masto.host/ (again, like diaspora hosting isn't needed, see http://joinmastodon.org/)
Of the above, only Nextcloud generally needs some sort of hosting (which is reasonable given what it does), but there are plenty of low overhead options. It's not expected that normal people host their own Diaspora or Mastodon instances, there are plenty of open instances for people to choose from.
[Matrix]: https://matrix.org/
(a previous version of this comment incorrectly claimed signal was closed-source)
You seem to be listing different criteria for each of the reasons you dismiss the various alternatives -- the reason against Riot / Matrix is not at all like the other (reasons), and is a bit self-defeating.
Wrong, both clients and server are open-source.
>not federated,
This is intentional. See https://signal.org/blog/the-ecosystem-is-moving/
>uses phone number.
I think this is for the best. This means you can seamlessly add contacts you already have on your phonebook to Signal. No need for emails or separate user accounts. If you're worried about this, you can buy a prepaid SIM card for pennies, or use an online service. It's not an issue.
However moxie seems to have an outdated form of federation in mind when he gives examples of IRC and email. While it is true that these technologies have been quite rigid, there are other examples of distributed technologies that are quite flexible in implementation. Bitcoin and Mastodon are examples where changes and updates are pushed through regularly.
The determining factor seems to be the amount of control the principal developer holds over the ecosystem. Mastodon instances basically all run the same code, and (mostly) everyone is happy with the direction they are going. Thus, Eugen pushes a new release, everyone runs it, and protocol changes can propagate throughout the network. Old nodes get left behind. However, say Eugen (or Signal) massively screws up, and they get forked. Now, any protocol changes must be adopted by both camps (who by definition have differing philosophies) to be fully applied.
Also, Mastodon is built on open standards that have several competing and compatible implementations (GNUSocial and Pleorma are the main two), which are run by their own maintainers.
Signal is released under the GPL, meaning that if something did happen to shake user faith (data breach, data mining) a fork pointing at different servers could be instantly created with complete feature parity.
Every traditional barrier to user migration is removed. Features are the same. UX is the same. Compatibility is the same.
That's a precarious line to toe.
Also, Mastodon is built on open standards that have several competing and compatible implementations (GNUSocial and Pleorma are the main two), which are run by their own maintainers.
Yes, Mastodon is inter-operable with OStatus and ActivityPub. However I do not know of any significant user base that interacts with Mastodon through an alternative platform. Given the will, Mastodon could implement its own extensions to ActivityPub and break compatibility, with most users unaffected due to the strength behind the core development team.
But not federation. No one can talk to people on other servers. Such forks already exist, none of them are successful.
>Yes, Mastodon is inter-operable with OStatus and ActivityPub. However I do not know of any significant user base that interacts with Mastodon through an alternative platform.
I know of many people on both of the platforms I mentioned. Collaboration between all of these platforms is frequent and they drive improvements in each other.
They are not successful because Signal has not yet done anything particularly egregious. If they do, I believe that a fork would quickly gain popularity.
>I know of many people on both of the platforms I mentioned. Collaboration between all of these platforms is frequent and they drive improvements in each other.
We've both given anecdotes; user counts would be more conclusive. I've found +1 million [0] for Mastodon. Do you know how many users GNU Social and Pleroma have? I can't find these numbers from a quick Google search, but they might be somewhere.
[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mastodon_(software)#Adoption]
Like I said: Moxie toes the line. He doesn't cross it. Well, everyone has a different line. He's crossed mine but not the lines the average user sets.
>We've both given anecdotes; user counts would be more conclusive. I've found +1 million [0] for Mastodon.
I question the methodology behind this figure. The nature of the decentralized network makes it difficult to get good estimates. All I have are anecdotes. Yes, the overwhelming majority of users are on Mastodon. However, I personally interact with several users on several different Pleroma instances and a couple on GNUSocial instances, and I did not seek them out for this purpose.
However they are the exception. Because the overwhelming majority of users are on Mastodon, the Mastodon developers have the power to modify protocol implementations. If it was closer to an even split, any breaking changes would fracture the community, while in this case some smaller groups may be lost.
[0]https://www.theverge.com/2018/2/13/17007100/google-amp-gmail...
In many countries you cannot buy a prepaid SIM card without showing identification. The seller must take a photocopy of your identification or enter your details into a government website. Consequently, any global network based on telephone numbers will force usage of real names just as much as privacy-violating commercial services.
This isn't a reasonable rejection of Matrix / Riot. Every time you want to move a lot of people, you need to have network effects in order to make it work.
I believe that Matrix / Riot are going to be the best way going forward if you want something that is accessible, is actually privacy preserving in many ways, and doesn't require lock-in. Same goes for ActivityPub / Mastodon, which has a real possibility to replace ordinary social media with a federated system that is privacy-preserving in similar ways (with the note that we need to have some large instances people can use -- similar to how many people use the main Matrix instance).
This is how it seems, I may be wrong.
Anonymous unfederated secure communication via email or other methods... PGP/GPG remains unfriendly.
The core of all of these recommendations is that you need an identity online. It almost seems like if you solve the identity problem (like how various blockchains deal with it with addresses and wallets) you can get all the rest as easy follow ons.
Mastodon still ties identity with a machine online much like email. Even SSB ties identity to your machine. Even what Sir T.B.L. is proposing - a "data pod" per person - seems to tie identity with a machine online.
Are there no other solutions to this?
The problem isn't creating/inviting; you can do that with email. Facebook is great at finding events, and there aren't any competitors that have anything close to their reach.
I blog myself on a niche-interest topic, and I pride myself in writing substantial, specific and useful information. Unfortunately, my blog doesn’t get read by many people. And then you see lots of successful content farms out there, whose posts are actually devoid of content, but their empty posts are just packaged neatly to serve as clickbait and get advertising revenue. It is awfully dispiriting.
If there was a network that automatically updated my contact for a person when they changed their phone number, I'd no longer have an excuse to stay on facebook at all.
It seems to me that Facebook is the new Microsoft and we need a "GNU/Linux" to oppose it.
The best would be a decentralized system for sure, but it is hard to be as good as Facebook/other social network with full decentralization.
Food for thoughts...
Current For-Users-By-Users platforms I use are:
GNU Social, D*, peertube ( in alpha stages ... )
FreedomBox was being pushed heavily by Eben Moglen and Bdale Garbee (I saw them doing a FOSDEM presentation on this back in 2011) but it was more about the hardware platform (to support a free software social network suite) but it's also not really very popular, unfortunately.
Mastodon, as freehunter notes, is well known, but only in niche circles - and seems to be positioning itself as a twitter-alike only.
Searches for 'free software social network' will return a huge list of projects, but even for the most popular <sic>, federated, relatively painless to setup & maintain (or with paid hosted options available) systems ... the network effect combined with most people's inertia / apathy / ignorance means we're not going to be ridding the world of FB any time soon.
Recruiter wants to reach job-hunters with vague info: can reach 1000 dev; Recruiter wants to reach job-hunters with salary info: can reach 2000 dev ... more information more reach
I do agree that now is a good time to start something. I've got my design put together to stay simple, lean, and keeps costs down while still handling the basic needs people go to social media for. I'm sure most of us could whip out their own flavors of that. And many of us could code it, too. Which is the reason that I am hesitant to start building -- too many competing projects will steal each other's thunder.
Good luck building a version of Facebook that billions of people would pay for.
Even if you choose to actively do no fb - they can still track you to a certain degree.
Your friends who uploaded their addressbooks and phonebooks to Facebook and WhatsApp are obviously helping to associate that data with a real identity, and by tagging you in pictures make it even more complete.
But the vast majority of info Facebook has on you that YOU did not provide directly actually comes from the embedded Facebook bugs ("like buttons") all over the internet. And it's not surprising that the media doesn't mention it -- they rely on those bugs to get traffic, so they can't complain about it without taking it off, and they can't take it off without losing traffic.
If you like friendly contact reminders or like to recall what you talked about with friends whom you don’t meet every so often, give it a try. You can create your own timeline with conversations, photos, and other important things. As well as general background information. It can send you reminders to talk, and birthday reminders.
The data is in your control, stays on your phone, is not synced. An internet connection is not required.
Currently only for iOS: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/social-contact-journal/id118...
LinkedIn is in my experience is as bad as FB. I really can't take anyone seriously that is recommending syncing with it. It uploaded my friends contacts which I did not want.
Needless to say, my hotmail/outlook.com account now no longer has ANY contacts in it.
I avoid giving Google information about myself that it doesn't need, but I do trust them more than I trust Facebook. Although maybe that's naive of me.
Haha, probably not. G+ enforced a "real names" policy, then tried to merge accounts across search, YouTube, etc. It's the same Panopticon, though slightly less amoral.
If we want to solve this, we need to make it easier for non-tech people to decentralize their data. Distributed communication was solved long ago: email (private 1-1), mailing lists (private many-many), weblogs (public 1-many), Usenet (public many-many). All of this can be self-hosted, or hosted on a shared server for a few $/mo, i.e. less than 10% of your phone bill.
Since that will never happen, the least-bad way to do this is to silo your online activity among separate entities and identities.
Personally, I would use Wire. https://wire.com (https://github.com/wireapp)
Source code: https://github.com/Minds
News Feed -> Nuzzel, Digg, Apple News
Messenger -> Signal
Events -> Paperless Post, Doodle
Birthday Reminders -> Google Calendar, etc...
Marketplace -> Nextdoor
Groups -> GroupMe
3rd Party Logins -> 1Password, LastPassIt's not that people use Facebook because it's better than those tools, or worse than those tools, or even because it's an aggregate of those tools.
They use it because all their friends/family/colleagues are there.
2) What made Facebook interesting and addictive is the "variable reward" of small information snacks. The smaller the information snack is, the easier it is to produce (and consume). And the dumber society gets as a whole (Twitter)
News Feed - Apple News, Feedly
Groups - Reddit, BAND
https://www.minicreo.com/itunes-alternative/best-facebook-al...
When a journalist is leading a #deletefacebook movement and when news is pushing alternative products over facebook does it cross a line from news/journalism/reporting to advocacy/advertisement/pay for play/etc?
I hope one day we get to the bottom of what this is really about. Because it isn't about privacy or data protection. And the scale and scope of the facebook campaign is rather unsettling also. Maybe real journalists are out there and hopefully we can get some answers.