Neither most likely. I think that this man is an apatrid and that he doesn't have a real home judging by a similar string of events in my life. My country was economically devastated due to unfavorable Geo-political circumstances and I eventually had to choose to move, rather than to prolong meaningless suffering. I was lucky to have a choice. Although, I'd say it was not as dramatic as in the case of Iraq. Anyhow, I feel as if I don't belong anywhere.
That war destroyed both countries. The credibility and finances, and the lives of thousands of soldiers in one, and the deaths of many hundreds of thousands and the societal fabric of another. Please take your tu quoque/no true scotsman fallacy somewhere else.