> And .. I downvoted you. I hope it will sting.

I can't see whether I was downvoted but I see that the net result is very positive. But I'll take your word on that.

Perhaps your view is not shared as widely?

> People giving up free time to add value to your thing and you blame them for the site problems?

Do read my original post. My problem is people who don't actually contribute but nitpick on how the questions are worded. How does kicking me out or ignoring my question at best help me resolve my issue?

I would prefer them to keep the free time they dedicated to harassing me to themselves.

I do find your suggestions on design sensible though.