Viewed another way, I would say the Vanguard fund costs are low for a reason. It seems unfair to expect a Mercedes experience for a Honda worth of expense ratio.
If you sign up with Vanguard, you still have to pick which fund(s) to buy. If you don't know anything about investing, that can be a daunting task. With Betterment, the only decision you have to make is the percentage split for stocks vs. bonds.
With regards to my friends though, my priority was to get them to invest in the first place, and the user friendliness of Betterment helped a lot.
The lack of financial education in the US really makes me sad sometimes. And it pisses me off that companies like RH will take advantage of that.
This is literally what happened to me. I lost out on 20%+ in gains because I procrastinated a year after reading about how much Betterment fees eat into your gains. In hindsight the amount of money I missed out on was WAY more than any fee Betterment would have hit me with.
I think for most people this actually ends up producing better long term returns.
Even a slight difference in fees is worth thousands in the long run.