Cold contacting sites to ask for linkbacks is not marketing, it's a lame and rarely successful attempt to game PageRank.
2. Maybe it's lame.
3. Rarely successful? Any data there? It has certainly worked for the people I've done it for.
4. PageRank is not the goal. Qualified, revenue-producing traffic is the goal.
Lame or not the proof is in the search engine result position.