C# tackled this problem 15 years ago. I'm sure other languages (Haskell) did it even earlier. When to use unsafe is a judgement call. Each developer and team will have to set their own standards. Some people will abuse it. None of this is new. At first it scares people. They think this is the brave new world, using unsafe feels gross and backwards! Eventually they understand where it is and isn't appropriate.
You might think "so what? Why even bother with a safe-by-default language?"
Because it greatly restricts the problem space. Rather than being forced to examine every line of code for every possible bit of undefined behavior or every path of flow control for memory errors you only need to think really hard about edge cases inside the unsafe blocks. Simply by virtue of being a relatively small number of blocks of few lines the problem of safety and correctness becomes easier to understand. Easier to test. Easier to reason about.
Unsafe is a tool. It's a dangerous tool so you should always wear your gloves and safety goggles. But when faced with a problem for which it is the best tool you should use it without regret.