My family immigrated from Bangladesh to America. In most ways, obviously, America is a lot more equal. But my mom and her sisters have STEM degrees, and that wasn’t all that unusual for a wealthy Bangladeshi family at the time. Bangladeshis perceive STEM as important, and encourage both girls and boys to pursue it (even if they don’t expect girls to stay in the work force after they get married).
Raising a daughter in the US, my perception is that girls in America are taught about “princesses and fairies.” We impress upon boys the need to get practical education so they can support families but are more indulgent with girls. Last summer, I signed my then four-year old up for summer camp classes. There literally was classes for “princesses and fairies.” Of course I signed her up for “little engineers.” My daughter was quite upset to be the only girl in the class. That’s not innate. It’s somehing we’re choosing to do to our kids.