I deleted WhatsApp for a year
theguardian.com
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Maybe I'm too old.
Meanwhile my wife tried to quit Facebook, and did alright, but you definitely miss out on stuff. Especially since my town has a "Chats" group that it seems the whole town is in, sharing news and bitching at each other (it's better than it sounds).
Mail, phone and text (SMS/MMS) are more than enough. And grandma still doesn't own a smartphone anyway.
The reason is that cellphone carriers used to charge you by the message (I speak from experience in Mexico), this was expensive compared to the average wage. Cheaper to just connect to WiFi, and send as many messages as you want.
Also, WhatsApp was one of the first popular and reliable messaging systems for cellphones. If offline or with poor signal, your messages where enqueued, and sent when you had signal. Facebook nor Skype had this back a few years ago.
US is a rich country, SMS has been cheap since I've lived in the us (4 years). 3 hours of minimum wage, $30, for unlimited everything, data, SMS, calls. WhatsApp didn't really solve a problem.
SMS is free in most/all of Europe as well, yet people use WhatsApp. So it's not just price.
The main reason was the overly priced SMS messages.
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As the author states, there are no real alternatives. In theory, WhatsApp can be replaced by lots of other applications. I settled for Wire, as I would choose an application that makes use of the Signal protocol while also having an open source client + server over WhatsApp any time of the day. In practice, few want to even consider using something that is not WhatsApp. I managed to convince some close friends to install Wire alongside WhatsApp (can't have unencrypted SMS as my only communications channel), but it took some convincing and privacy aware ethics rambling (if that makes sense) to achieve that. I can't imagine any somewhat sane person wanting to bother with so much trouble when branching out to alternative solutions. This particular sentiment from the article especially couldn't ring any more true:
"At the beginning, I often felt isolated and as if I had abandoned friends. Some contacts ebbed away, while I had to withstand the odd awkward look of disbelief and discontent from others when I explained that I did not use WhatsApp."
I can understand the convenience gain by using WhatsApp over regular SMS. That convenience is hardly unparalled nowadays though, the one thing that keeps people chained to WhatsApp is it's ubiquity, in the sense that every person you meet will quite likely have WhatsApp installed (do note that I'm saying this as part of a somewhat younger demographic).
I find this quite sad. My motivation for switching was simple, I didn't want to take part in any business Facebook sticks their fingers in. Whether Facebook uses all the metadata they get through WhatsApp, and for which (possibly nefarious) purposes is irrelevant, they've been shown to make unscrupulous use of data that should be private in order to conduct social experiments and whatnot a long time ago [1]. Am I in the wrong for trying to be mindful about the usage of my, very personal, data? I really hope I am not.
First time poster here, sorry if this sort of anecdotal evidence doesn't fit the type of content that is usually posted on here.
Also, what a funny way to send an article off.
[1] http://veekaybee.github.io/2017/02/01/facebook-is-collecting...
I'm feeling much better, since my phone stopped distracting me all the time and I lost the permanent need to look at my phone. Of course I'm using Telegram as an alternative, but the app is not running in the background and I have to open it myself if I want to check messages.
So in the end, I've exchanged communication to productivity and I don't regret it.
I don't like the open end of the article. It does not point out, if the author thinks to use WhatsApp again. It just talks about how we sell our data to use a service.