Isn't this a serious stretch ? I mean, sure there currently is an algorithm limitation that "turns it into a popularity contest". (I strongly disagree with that wording, but I sort of see what you mean if I squint strongly)
This is a bug. Plain and simple.
(Also as someone who speaks French I would like to point out that the counter on "English speaking person programs a language related thing that gets gender wrong" has long since crossed the 6 digit mark. Maybe language apps should be written by people whose native tongue is a complex language like French or German (I am sure there are others, just examples))
So unfortunately this is a fundamental bug that will take serious research to solve, and it's unlikely to be solved really quickly (let's say ... a year, two tops), but it's a bug that will be solved.
It's like "energy is too expensive to just have cheap global travel without airports" type bug. It's a bug, it's currently beyond our capability to fix, but it WILL be fixed.
The other claims you make are too far fetched to even respond to. All of Google's algorithms, bubble of accepted dogmatic knowledge (I would even contend that Google by itself is responsible for 20-30% of the worldwide IQ rise seen during it's existence).
> just about everyone pretends the opposite is true for modern machine learning.
Nope. That's not pretending. That's simply true.
However when you request such a machine algorithm "do the same those guys do", and "those guys" are a racist/sexist/... society, then it will come up with slightly off-color conclusions on occasion.
Humans, in my experience, are much worse.