"Tyler has taken over double what most of the rest of the team has at this point."
But it's fine, because Tyler has a legitimate reason that we're assured no-one is judging him for:
"Tyler got married and went on a honeymoon. Literally no one in the company is mad that he did that."
What if my reason is because I just wanted to have some time away? Or because I had some deeply personal reason that I don't feel comfortable advertising? This system doesn't exactly scream 'psychological safety' to me.