As someone who was in a similar situation, my advice to you is simple: if you plan on going to college, take some community college coursework and just apply after a couple of years. No transfer track none of that bs. Take courses you find worthy. Think a prereq is just gonna get in your way? Write to the chair, setup an interview and bring proof that it’s not gonna be a problem for you. Community college prerequisite course waivers are, IMO, really simple to get. Get outstanding marks in your coursework, hang around the community, build a portfolio and apply to the school.
Else, dump all time and effort into passion projects, maintaining a day job and networking the crap outta your local hacker scene. B-Sides, OWASP, etc.