Ask HN: What can I do to prepare myself to manage engineers for the first time?

Remember what a coworker did that made your job better. Try to do those things.

Remember what a coworker did that made your job worse. Try not to do those things.

Remember that everyone is subject to the Fundamental Attribution Error ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fundamental_attribution_error ) including you.

Be kind.

Teach. Explain. Whenever possible, provide guidance and policy rather than orders.

Find an organization method that works for you, and use it consistently. Don't worry about it being the best method, as long as it is good enough. When it stops being good enough, keep your experiments in finding a new method away from your coworkers.

https://www.joelonsoftware.com/2006/08/10/the-identity-manag...

let them work.