I don’t think it is meant to imply parents purposefully watch their kids drown. It is more of a warning that drowning isn’t obvious and can be silent. You might lay next to the pool and think you could rescue your kid at anytime, it is just a couple of meters away. But your kid may never shout for help because it is struggling to breath and stay afloat.
I watched a video of a life guard jumping into a large crowded pool, swimming towards a certain location. Even though I knew somebody is drowning there, my untrained eyes couldn’t spot the drowning person until the life guard almost reached the child. Everyone next to the child was completely oblivious and looked funny at the lifeguard wondering why he is swimming towards them.