That said, in this specific context of tech (or at least in my wheelhouse of Ops), this is surmounted by creating and fostering a culture where it's okay to experiment and fail.
Where we've been handicapped in this regard is specifically not doing that, and the particular individual who makes this difficult having the mentality that any new approach spells doom and actively working against initiatives to put us in a better posture of experimentation in environments that don't sacrifice stability and reliability of our stack (hence the sarcastic comment about giving up my first born child for server immutability--I don't even have kids, haha).
But that said, I think you're absolutely right. I'm not quite greybeard yet-mostly because I yank out every grey hair I see trying to establish residency on my chin, but nonetheless your point is accurate, well taken and definitely that has immense merit.