>Effectively what you are saying is that venture capital funds (correctly) think that percentage of shares aren't very valuable when they are equal preference to the employees.
That's not quite right - instead, he's implying that vc funds (correctly) think that the chance that this company's shares standing alone will suffice to return a multiple of the fund is low if they are of equal preference to the employees. That's not the same thing as "not very valuable", and the very counterintuitiveness of vc math should tell you that an asset a vc may not want (say, 5% of a company that sells for 75M after 3 years) may in fact be pretty valuable for the median employee.
>It seems like almost every startup funding system is predicated on early engineers being decieved about the value of their equity, and when someone tries to point it out on hn the response is "no venture capital firm will fund you if your employees aren't deceived about the value of their equity, idiot!"
Not at all - look, there are lots of good resources where you can learn more about how your equity works, and good founders will probably point you to them (e.g [0] and [1], although if you need a pointer to this instead of doing the 2-second google search yourself, you're probably not a great startup candidate anyway). Deception need not and should not enter into it. Not to say that there aren't scammy founders, but it's not best practice, and I don't believe Fred Wilson or most other reputable VCs would claim otherwise.
[0] https://blog.dweek.ly/introduction-to-stock-options-startup-...
[1] https://foundersgrid.com/employee-equity/ ...