Personally I use CopperheadOS as my daily driver because it stays continually ahead of Google (and groups like AOKP, LineageOS etc) in terms of Android hardening. It goes well beyond just not having Google Play services.
See their details on their approach and design: https://copperhead.co/android/docs/technical_overview
They make continued patches to Android as part of a security and privacy first approach. Many of their patches get upstreamed by google months later (if at all) but CopperheadOS users get them right away.
Google has their engineering efforts focused mostly on new features and compatibility. They are happy to let firms like CopperheadOS be further ahead in security research and take their patches where it does not break compatibility.
It really depends on what you want to optimize for. Security/privacy or being able to run all the latest games and social media apps and the consequences that come with them.