In any case, just to add a data point, after working as a defense contractor, a lot of that culture has stuck with me years later especially in terms of security consciousness and inadvertently leaking information signals, especially in this era of more and more publicly accessible social media content.
I really enjoyed it, and it gave me really good experiences and taught me some valuable lessons. Our CO always said "You can do ten times as much as you think you can do and twice as much as we think you can do". The lesson is that when you've done X amount of work you usually feel that you can do X more work.
We spent a couple of weeks in the field training and that has taught me to appreciate comfort without needing it. Whenever I'm cold, hungry or tired I can always think: "I've had it much worse, this is nothing".
But still, I don't feel like a military man and don't identify much with it. It's just a valuable experience.
edit: thought -> taught
CWO2 retired
Being in the Marine Corps is one of the hardest, craziest, challenging, worst, miserable job I have ever had. But I wouldn’t change a thing.
Semper Fi
I liked it, but identification: 0
Specific 'core values' remain important to me.