I speak as someone who once worked at a corrupt and unethical company (in Hollywood) and who got TF out of there within months, as soon as it became obvious internally.
The posturing about Uber is valid but the zeal seems a touch misplaced or this board would be full of similar opinions about others.
At this point, almost all the enablers of this culture -- up to the CEO -- have been wiped out of the company. Dara has no intentions of continuing any of this. Given this change, would you rather see me work on shoving ads down your throats or work at one of few companies in silicon valley that actually bridges the digital-real life gap and makes an impact enabling better transportation across the globe?
Also, take note of the fact that I said "outside of the Silicon Valley bubble". Believe it or not, there are other places on earth with companies that employ tech workers.
Meanwhile, ethical people either commute, don't buy house or work elsewhere. You are talking about it as if house in the most expensive city was some kind of entitlement or absolute need that absolves one of any ethical considerations. For that matter, neither does "I want fun work".
Meanwhile, thread about low paid workers being priced out of any living is full of people blaming them for pretty much everything.