If your reputation is that important to your career, you will find a way to control your urges. Either that or men don't belong in leadership because they can't control themselves?
It should not be a basic human urge to touch peoples thighs and buttocks without their consent. It has never occurred to me to touch someone sexually without their consent and I’m pretty sure I’m normal in that respect.
Look at the diversity, globally, of behaviors supported by an equally diverse set of culturally formed ethos. It's about dropping orders of magnitude off the frequency of these situations.
There's a lot of assumptions baked into that cake. The most obvious being what's considered acceptable behavior in a man by his female colleagues. There are a lot of countries where this kind of thing is considered part of the job by women.