Many of my friends have expressed that they don’t want to watch porn. They do it anyways and hate themselves for it after you know... they are done.

I personally think it’s completely natural to have such urges and to cave to them. In fact, for men specifically there are some benefits in keeping the system well lubricated (pun not intended). It’s just something one has to moderate.

Additionally, i have noted that people’s expectations of their desired partner is usually skewed from what they see in porn.