>> How do people even know how much bitcoin activity is real and not essentially faked?
Define fake
Define fake
Essentially, if you interact with banks and have too many chargebacks or complaints, you'll be dropped. Or your fees will get massive. And that's if you find a payment processor who's happy with you taking money for cryptocurrencies in the first place.
And when the whole thing blows up, I disappear. My payment gateway will drop me, but what do I care?