My perspective as FIDE master who has played Ruy Lopez Exchange type of positions for 30+ years.
9. Qe1 is a pretty normal maneuvering move
13. Ncxe5??! looks like a major howler.
Ask 100 strong chess players and 99 of them would completely ignore it.
You are giving up a piece for two pawns in an open position and black has no real weaknesses. There is no real basis for a sacrifice.
This shouldn't work. The crazy thing is that Stockfish almost makes it work.
It is the kind of move you play when you absolutely must win and must win now.
The only reason Stockfish considered it is because of white pawn on a5 giving additional tactics in breaking up black pawn chain with a6 a couple of moves down. With pawn on a4 Ncxe5 wouldnt be worth attempting.
The crazy thing is that being such a bully almost worked!
At move 28. White looks very solid, with 3 perfect pawns for the piece + black has horrible weaknesses.
29. g3 is a bit suspect but the next super computer move is
31. Qxc7 this has to be losing but it is a typical computer bully move.
Most strong human players would prefer to defend h3 hole with Kg2 (on Qh5 f5 looks fine).
The idea is that black's white square bishop is boxed in with white pawns.
There must be a concrete reason why Stockfish did not play Kg2.
Overall the impression one gets is of very "human" play by Alpha and ultra aggressive play by Stockfish.
EDIT: so extremely impressive play by Alpha but a bit suspicious aggression by Stockfish.