I understand why some people don't want to work for those companies or in those areas, or aren't motivated by money. But I think many others do, and the ones that are living it now are doing so by choice and for their own reasons.
Now let's say you want to house your family. You decide to buy a house. Well you only have $230,000 so you can't put 20% down on a home with an average price of a million won in San Mateo, so you put 10% down on this home ( random home in San Mateo.)[https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/1715-Borden-St-San-Mateo-... ]
It's a 3 bed 2 bath home with 1400 square feet.I'm also assuming you have two kids.(each get their own room)
So now we're at 230800 - $110,000 = 120,800
Now you have to pay the yearly mortgage which is 5606 x 12 =67272
120800-67272= 53,028 left over to live in.
Well don't you need a car to go to work? What about a car for the wife? Car insurance? You are looking at 1200-1500 a month, if you buy a newer car and have great credit with insurance.
(1300x12) - (53028)= 37,028
You see how quickly it goes.
So the thing is I'm not sure if you can put a down-payment on a house less than 20%. That will take off on the mortgage (save you an additional 12-15k) ( I also assumed an interest rate of 4.37% for the 30-year fixed and I believe if you put more down you get a better interest rate)
I know hard for some people to imagine, but alot of people have no savings , leave paycheck to paycheck
no problem
https://smartasset.com/taxes/california-tax-calculator#NIGzB...
Total income after federal and state taxes is $241,739.